Awaken You Wonderful We - Letter to Readers, Parents, Politicians, Scientists to save the victims of Autism, ADHD, Depression, and Suicide Part 4
“Look deep into nature, and then you will understand everything better.”
Albert Einstein
Children in the city have less chance to interact with others; they spend most of the time on television, smartphones and playing toys. The time for parents in the city play with children is very little. Most of the time children in Vietnam spend time with the domestic helpers who have little connection, compassion and little love for children; they only for care physiological needs. Most of the domestic helpers rarely talk, embrace and hug children with love like their parents do. These domestic helpers without emotion are like robots. The first important stage of life of autistic children in the city, they have far less time spent on direct contact, direct communication, close connecting and close interacting with other people than normal children do. If paying attention, parents can read the early signs of stress and indifference in their children. When parents and adults in the city arguing loudly, a lot of shouting and crying, the autistic children lie in bed with frailty, scare, intense, and trembling. They are in extreme stress state with a lot of stress chemicals run throughout the body. Early visible problem is stomach upset with a lot of vomiting and excessive acid. Each stress, cortisone, adrenalin, and nor-epinephrine pumped into the body. Children activate the stress system as if they are in a dangerous environment; all functions reduced, just putting all the effort in stress state like “fight or flight”. Unfortunately, they cannot fight and they cannot fly except crying and screaming. Stressed children may turn away, have feelings of insecurity, indifferent to many things and do not look at their parents' eyes. Because of fear and stress, when parents hug them, they resist with the stiffness in the muscle, do not put their head on their parent's shoulder comfortably; they cry more often, sudden awake during periods of sleep. These are the signals that children are in problems. When there is stress in the family, the autistic children are the weakest member of the family, bearing the most consequences of the stress, conflict and negative emotions in the family. They have signals of stress with more watchful, awake and unsafe at home as if they are in the new environment. They need the love and connection of parents to calm negative feelings down. If parents misread the behaviors of children, they not only miss the opportunity for their children to gain the materials to support the development of emotional intelligence in the previous phase of life but also, worsen the stress that their children have to bear. Observing children safe, we will see they are stretching arms, playing freely and naturally; talking and singing endlessly, smiling all day, making many funny and silly actions; hugging comfortably and sleep comfortably on the shoulder of parents.
Why earlier stage of life is precious time? Precious time relates to the development of the brain. Infant's brains lack lots of normal functions; infant babies cannot see, cannot hear; they just feel the emotions and energy from the surrounding. The first stage of life is the period of the rapid perfection of the brain. It will be very dangerous when the first phase of this life is interrupted, especially caused by panic or stress. If we look at the living conditions of autistic children, there is a lot of pressure and negative energy, which is harsh and stressful for the immature brain of the children.
If we make statistics of direct interaction time between parents with autistic children and parents with normal children, we will see the relation. Epidemiology of autism also shows that when parents are older, their children are more likely to have autism. For me, this is evidence of poor energy in interaction and less connection and the bad lifestyle of living. The old people often prefer more silence, serious in action, strict in order and neatness than the young parents do. This also reduces the chance of playing for children and creates additional psychological pressure on the children.
“All that I am, or hope to be, I owe to my angel mother.” Abraham Lincoln
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The brain is the most important organ in the body: it accounts for 3% of body weight but consumes 20% of the body's energy. The quality of the brain determines the quality of mind or thinking. And the food of thinking is ideas. What
How and What effect if kids suffer silently long-term stress. They will never learn all their social skills to live well in society. English, Vietnamese, walking, driving, skating, talking, discussing is never easy at all to learn. but kids in happy and suitable support can have all of this and make it as the kids' instinct, Belief that all do not know. But these skills will be very difficult to learn. Golden time for forming the brain and learning may be lost. They may live under stress for years. Who else may be lack of social skill or EQ? The advantage of living may make the disadvantage of thinking and abilities.
The brain is the most important organ in the body: it accounts for 3% of body weight but consumes 20% of the body's energy. Any small defect in the brain can make mental and physical health in poor quality.
The quality of the brain determines the quality of mind or thinking. And the food of thinking is ideas. What
The mind is irrational, AI cannot create the human mind, because of its irrationality. Why scientists, statistics try to put the mind and mind function in the diagram, number, and equation?
The mind is different from bacteria, gut, stomach, bone, tissue. The first is Irrational, the second one is logical. So the same problems with the second ones can be treated with the same pills but in the first one.
The mind is irrational, so that who sense the most, feel the most can understand and control the mind. They are leaders, religious leaders, artists, composers, educators, and philosophers. The ones understand least maybe scientists and statistics, they try to rationalize the mind.
The Time of mind is the time of creativity, time of irrationality, and time of illogic. Maybe the fearful time for the logical ones: scientists, statistics, autistic, ADHD, depressive ones, and mentally ill ones.
Maybe this is proof that we are wrong when trying to logic the mind, and mind characters into same pills, rigid protocols, without compassion and understanding: economic soaring, pharmaceutical industry soaring, the standard of living is highest, But the number of people commits suicide, homicide, gunfire, taking mental medication, taking all other medications are soaring also, problems in the family, school, society, world are soaring also. With a logical mind and number, we will never know what is happening.
Maybe this is proof that we are wrong when trying to logic the mind, and mind characters into same pills, rigid protocols, without listening and understanding: economic soaring, pharmaceutical industry soaring, the standard of living is the highest ever, But the number of people commits suicide, homicide, gunfire, taking mental medication, taking all other medications are soaring also, problems in the family, school, society, world are soaring also. With a logical mind and logic number, we will never know what is happening.
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Videos to watch to awaken you: Awaken You Wonderful We
Michael Jackson - Earth Song (Official Video) Kelly Clarkson - Because Of You (VIDEO): Chorus of the good kids that parents do not know
Awaken You Wonderful We
I JUST SUED THE SCHOOL SYSTEM !!!: He did with the place teach our kids
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Michael Jackson - Heal The World (Official Video)
What I have done
Chú Đại Bi Tiếng Phạn
Ebook awaken you wonderful we available free on kdp library from Van Dao Duy
Time for contemplation: mixing pictures to find out the cause and cure



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